I’m not really a hat person. That isn’t to say I don’t like them, because I absolutely do. I love how they keep you cosy, I love how they cover up a bad hair day, and most of all, I love how they give you an opportunity to add a bit of interest to a Winter outfit, since I pretty much feel like a walking coat for the majority of this time of year. Thing is though, I’m just not convinced they suit me.
Everything about a hat – no matter the style – works in theory. I see them on other people, I plan cute little outfits around them, and it’s all going well. Then I plonk one on my head and it all goes wrong. The vision I had in my head just doesn’t seem to work out in real life. No matter how hard I try, the hat just seems to sit there awkwardly, a bit like lost property. An item that simply doesn’t belong, something that has been dropped into an unexpected location and forgotten about – that is what hats look like on me. I might as well be walking around with a cat or a tea set up there. Seriously. Maybe I just have an oddly shaped head? Who knows.
Anyway, despite this natural inability to look good in headwear, I seem to insist on trying it. I just can’t seem to accept that berets are all kinds of wrong. I duly pop one on, fiddle with it for about three hours until it’s in a position I find barely acceptable (which will inevitably shift to an entirely different spot within about two seconds of walking away from the mirror…) and then spend the day feeling horribly awkward and vow never to do it again. Until, of course, I log into Instagram, see someone adorable rocking one as part of an incredible ensemble – then the whole sorry cycle starts again. I so want to be a hat person. They just don’t like me as much as I like them!
So of course, I have done the only sensible thing and branched out into YET MORE HATS! My ex used to tell me anyone in a hat like this was clearly a conceited d*** (for reasons he could never really explain…) so you’d think that might be enough to convince me not to attempt being a little more adventurous, but no, I am a glutton for punishment! I’m giving it a go anyway! And actually, I have to say, I’m kinda enjoying it! I feel a tiny bit less like a numpty than I do in a beret. Although, I do feel a little bit like I might resemble an Indiana Jones style explorer. Not sure which is better…
What are your thoughts – yay or nay to hats, people??
Love,
In this post: Hat, H&M (Similar) – Tea Dress, Primark (Similar) – Draped Trench Coat, Primark (Similar) – Vintage Style Boots, Office (Similar) – Tan Saddle Bag, Primark (Similar)
I love that hat, it looks amazing on you!! I’m the same when it comes to hats, I’m always so terribly self-conscious of how I look in them.
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Thanks so much! It’s odd isn’t it, I always feel like hats are a bit ‘look at me!’ I’ve no idea why, I always really like them on other people!
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I think you look great in this hat. I love hats also, but I feel like my head is just too small to wear them. I am like you…try, try, try and then give up.
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Thank you! Maybe we just weren’t made with hats in mind 🙂
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I love your hat and how you go around to style it. It pops up beautifully with your brown shoes and bag. Stunning look
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Thank you so much!
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Oh my gosh Steph you look so cute in this outfit including the hat!! I love your posts featuring dresses and Skirts for sure but this autumn into winter look is top class. the Tea dress ties it all together , the black dress with floral print compliment the leggings and then the black hat. I love your boots and handbag with the belt . I definitely say yay to you in hats . Thanks for the post, Terri xo.
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Aw, thanks Terri! x
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Always hats! I wish I could wear them to work!
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Big hat person over here!! Love your Dora the Explorer vibes!
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Thanks lovely!
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Yay to hats, for sure! I love how they look, but I get self-conscious wearing them because I think other people are like, “Why is she wearing a hat?” But…I digress…Shove away the “Indiana Jones” thoughts because this hat looks great on you!
Virginia | More to Mrs. E
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Aw thank you! How funny that so many of us feel the same way!
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Love the post and the hat! You look great.
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Thank you lovely!
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